Little girls love to be noticed by their daddy's and to be told how
pretty and lovely they are. If you go to a children's section of a sto re, you
will even find princess costumes to help a little girl fulfill her princess
dreams. When a little girl gets healthy attention from her daddy, she
shines brighter than any star. As little girls are nurtured and grow, their
daddy's continually remind them through their attention and interactions
that they are more precious than any riches the world could provide. They
are a like a pearl!
As we grow up, we continue to want to feel precious and lovely and have
others see us in this way. We often seek this attention in the young men
that we find attractive. I bring this up so that you can stop for a moment
and reflect on what you may be getting out of your relationships.
What do you want from these young men in your life?
Do you want companionship, friendship, or do you want somebody to
make you feel beautiful?
If you are looking for the latter, I'm afraid to tell you that you are looking in the wrong place.
They often don't feel like they know who they are as individuals. During the time that they should have been figuring out the "me", they just jumped from one "we" to the next. The great thing is this is one of the decisions in your life that you truly are in control of and have time on your side. I know patience
can be one of the most difficult disciplines to master, but you have time.
There n1ay be n1any things that life may throw at you that do not allow
any tin1e to adjust to and that you just simply don't have a choice about.
Parents announcing they are getting a divorce, being told that you have a
life threatening illness, or having a close friend move away. You may not
have a choice in any of these types of decisions, so embrace the choices that
you do have. To become who God has created you to become.
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